The subtitle to this goes something like "who? what? No, wait...." The title refers to that cold Sunday afternoon in the chapel of the Lutheran Church near the campus of the University of Minnesota when these two young people got married. January 10, 1965. 50 years ago. That's my Mother's locket that I'm wearing -- I'd forgotten that detail.
When I was scanning these old photos into my computer last month, JB took a look at them and commented that the people in them were "unrecognizable." That's a fair assessment, I think. I remember -- years ago -- seeing photos in small town newspapers of couples celebrating their golden wedding anniversary. There was always a before and after set of photos. And the after photo never looked anything like the before photo. I'll spare you the after photo. You all know what we look like now. It's the before photo that's interesting.
A few of you already know the story. We met in the summer of 1963 while both of us were working at the Great Northern depot on Hennepin Avenue in Minneapolis. He was working the "extra list" for the railroad while working on a degree in electrical engineering at the University. I worked at the soda fountain, and took two buses to get back to the Macalester campus after work was over at 10 every night. It was the summer of 1964 when we had our first date. I was 19, JB was 25. The wedding took place about seven months later, with only a handful of people there to witness it. Two of my brothers representing my family. His parents were there from his family. Three of our friends and the minister make ten, I think, counting the two of us. After the ceremony the group went back to his parents' house in Roseville, where all of these photos were taken. For the 60's -- the real 60's -- that was a fair amount of formality.

This is us, newly minted married people, with JB's parents, John and Margery. There was cake, I remember, probably because there's a photo of it in the same envelope that these pictures were in. 50 years is a long time, and memories fade.
Here's a great photo of the bride (I believe that this is how "say cheese" looks in photos) and groom, with her brothers. I know, I can hardly believe it either. I had asked TT, as the oldest male member of my family available that day, to give me away. Though he was my first choice anyway, as my big brother, my sometimes defender and my friend. I felt a bond there that made him seem like the obvious choice -- and then the minister never asked the question. In the end, it must not have mattered much. What did matter greatly was that Jim and Gene were there for me, looked good, and upheld the family honor.
50 years in the blink of an eye.